A women wants to make sure the solid attachment with her partner. Closeness as soon as you can establish after a period of separation, even it may be a day apart, other things will flow more freely. But never put your own needs completely on hold. For example, when you come back at home from your office or work, your partner wants to talk with you, like saying that miss you so much all the day, glad to see you at home, how your day was going. She wants to hear all about it. Never say her, I’m tired so much, or can we talk after 10 minutes? Just try to relax for some time and give proper answer to your partner at that moment.
You should help your partner in any problem instead to jump into her problem solving mode. If you’re not sure what your partner needs to do, just say okay to her. You might say that you are really looks upset while facing any problem. You should give some suggestions or listen her on it.
If your partner is less interested in frequent sex than you try a little empathy. Never taking the rejection personally and pressuring her for more frequently sex. You should consider the possible reasons behind it for the discrepancy and desire which may have nothing to do with you. May be there are some sensitive issue from past of your partner. For example, may be your partner is a survivor of sexual abuse. Try to read your partner mind deeply and be sensitive and friendly with her. Her past traumas make her frightening physical intimacy.
If your partner work outside the home, you should help her in her responsibilities like cooking, cleaning, shopping, laundry and childcare, also keeping in view what a woman want to do? Understand brainstorm of your partner and figure out how much her workload reduce by you.
Significant relationships always make a feel of empowerment in women. Main reason for your partner’s success in attaining her goals is your caring attitude. Your caring contribution will help her efforts to face difficult situations. You should allow your partner to voice her fears and support her to solve her problems. Females just wants you to listen them carefully and understand them.
You should find out communication problems first. As this is like an invitation to keep on talking, listening and even work things out. You and your partner communicate each other in a very different way. But to reach the higher levels of understanding interest, they should communicate each other effectively.